Being a hedonist. .

;Enjoyment sans committment"--is the motto of hedonists. Come November-December, streets of chennai will be witnessing "bitches-dogs ka milan". Even cannine clan faces abysmal sex ratio. Thanks to castaration drive initiated by the authorities some parts of the city experiencing "scarcity of bitches" and other parts experience "scarcity of dogs".
In my area, there is a lonely bitch( I take the pride of exterminating the dogs population by informing the municipal authorities) as a result I've earned the wrath of that lonely "bitch". Everytime we meet on the street, "she"snarls at me and I take a stone as a precaurionary measure.
The dogs from the neighbhouring areas make a beeline to "befriend" her. In that procress, there will be a " dog fight". All these activities take place during night time. They simply disturb our sleep. Hence, I take up the role of a snipper. Using the cover of darkness, I pelt stone at the "visitors". Because the "visitors" motto is to fill it, shut it and forget it. All dogs are hedonist by nature. By the way, the " bitch" in our locale is spayed. Again, I take the credit of making her "barren". In that case, she is a hedonist too.

Everything is justified

Why you remain a unique personality? When everyone is following the same policy. There might be one or two stray incidents don't magnify it too much. When you've set the bar high you ought to withstand the pulls and pressures of that level.. Always set your eyes on the target. If you don' t do your assigned tasks. You will be relegated or pushed back by your competitor. There is no logic in analysing the sin factor. The sin factor should be kept out of the purview. By harping harping on the subject of  sin factor you are not only wasting your time but also other's. Be prepared to do anything.  In case, you can't reconcile your conscience gulp two pegs in tge night.

Needs or Wants: Revisited

Once you know the art of savings, your unwanted spending will come to a naught. Because when you are goimg through a gala period of your life you will not be bothered about the inflows. The moment, you witness a sudden slump in your cash flows then you realise the importance of money.
Distinguishing the wants and needs is the first step in taming the crisis. At any cost the needs has to be fulfilled. Whereas, wants (not all)  can be either wished away or procastinated forever. This cannot happen immediately but, a sustained effort could fetch a  desired result.