Back to Basics. . .

The decision to run away from home is taken after much deliberation among friends and other like minded souls. The act of running away is always seen as a disgusting one from the respected family of view. (Hardly there is any respected family these days most of them using "running away " act as a bargaining tool).

Once the elopement is over, the couples undertakes the primary task of "manufacturing". After that process is over, the duty lies before the couple is to bring up the "manufactured-output". So far,so good.

Invariably , (suppose the lady is from a so called " high -class -family") she will expect her parents. By seeking the help of her parents she suggests that elopement decision was not taken whole-heartedly but, under duress.