Don't covet ------ it is easier said than done.
Have you ever praised your spouse for her/ "his"( in some cases ) cooking skills(gone are the days of cooking at home, nowadays, only takeaways).
How many times have you praised your spouse particularly,
after marriage( before marriage you would have praised out of" impulsion" wisdom strikes you only after a bitter experience).
How many times you would have prayed to god for the dissolution of neighbhour's marriage? ( so that your chances get brighter)
How many times you've had "es(sex)capades" with your teen age housemaid when your spouse was cooling her heels at her parent's home?
Now, tell me " kanna! unnukkum laddu thinna aasaiya".