The stage is set for.......

No brokers, No matimonial advertisements, No dowry , No caste, No astrologer etc. Only attraction .In other words, love at first sight. Yes! this is கார்த்திகை மாதம் . The dogs and bitches undergo physical tribulations  .They are in seearch for " right partners". The cannines are called humans best friend. As a result, they too, have abysmal female sex ratio. So, in a locality, there will be a literal "dog-fight" over the control of "available bitches" (in other words, जो जीता वही सिकंदर).

 

poor cannines are not aware that they all have undergone tubectomy and vasecttomy . The doctors from corporation of Chennai had peformed  the surgeries  on them to  control the street dog menace. Because Under animal  welfare act, they are not entitled to kill the animals.

 

Hence, DOGS & BITCHES" can have only JALSA they cannot procreate pups.

Wanna join" that " league

Human life will be boring if one's life gets stuck or stagnate at a particular state. We always want to have a "buzz" in life. We develop desires to reach the top. For which, we ought to develop certain procedures . To me, adjustment in life is the paramount eligibility to be successful. No matter what the situation is because of being " adjustable" you will win goodwill from others. Now,let me play devil's advocate that what is the guarantee in securing all desired things ? There is no definite answer.

In some cases, we play to the gallery like acquiring new habits to impress others. Because the concept of "be- yourself" will not bring any success . If you still persist with your "habits " the others will see you as an irritant. The day will not be far off from being "dumped".

Just by aping others will not guarantee you any success. In fact, your newly acquired "habits" will rule you. As a result, you'll be back to square one.

No personal hygiene

The other day I was travelling in a train to nearby suburb . A group of college students were going to their college. Since, they had to reach the college before 9.30 a.m.They brought their breakfast with them and they finished their breakfast inside the train itself.

The moment one tiffin box was opened each one of them laid their hands on tiffin box. The most appalling thing was that none of them washed their hands before eating . After taking a bite a particular guy sucked his finger after finger (sucking the finger is the Indian style of relishing food, if the food is tasty in nature) and again he re-laid his hand on tiffin box. None of them objected to his practice because everyone of them were doing the same .

I didn't say anything to them but, one of the members sensed (rather read my face) my displeasure and said that "these things are common in "friendship" one should not read too much".

Later on , I came to know that this group represents NSS which goes from village to village to create awareness on Swine Flu. What a pity Preaching is different but practicing it ..........

Back to Basics. . .

The decision to run away from home is taken after much deliberation among friends and other like minded souls. The act of running away is always seen as a disgusting one from the respected family of view. (Hardly there is any respected family these days most of them using "running away " act as a bargaining tool).

Once the elopement is over, the couples undertakes the primary task of "manufacturing". After that process is over, the duty lies before the couple is to bring up the "manufactured-output". So far,so good.

Invariably , (suppose the lady is from a so called " high -class -family") she will expect her parents. By seeking the help of her parents she suggests that elopement decision was not taken whole-heartedly but, under duress.

Irrelevant Blessings!

There was a time when couples used to prostrate before the elders to seek their blessings. In turn the elders would say to the lady in front of them 'dheerga sumangali bhava' literal meaning "May you live longer as a married woman" What so funny about it ? According to Hindu tradition a married woman should exhibit certain features like wearing a mangalsutra around her neck applying kum kum on the forehead and at the centre partition of the hair , wearing metti (a sort of an ornament) on the second toe of both legs and flowers decorating the back of her head .

These days it is very difficult to distinguish a married woman from an unmarried woman. Nowadays, neither the marriages are made in heaven nor marriage of convenience it is purely called marriage of connivance. Hence, it is irrelevant to be blessed to be an eternal sumangali.

There is a rider in that blessings one may call it a hidden agenda of the male dominated world. Another meaning to the blessing is let the wife predeceases her husband. In that case menfolk, would expect such blessings from the elders very often.

பூக்கள் இங்கே மயிர் எங்கே....

புலவர்கள் பூக்களை பெண்களுடன் ஒப்பிடுவார்கள். அது மட்டும் இல்லாமல் பெண்கள் பூக்களை சூடினால் லக்ஷ்மி கடாக்ஷம் என்றும் சொல்லுவார்கள். ஆனால் இப்பொழுது கதையே வேறு . அதுமட்டும் இல்லாமல் பெண்களுக்கு முடி தொல்லையை அதிகமாக இருப்பதால் பூ வைக்க " மயிறும்" இல்லை. அங்காடியில் பூக்கள் கொட்டிக்கிடக்கிறது ஆனால் பெண்களின் தலையில் மட்டும் மயிர் எங்கே?

They have a free run.....

They were your unsolicited companions on your train journey whether you like them or not. They just stalk you during your journey. No TTE can ask them or examine them in fact, at times, they are at the receiving end.

Yes ! you 've rightly figured out what I really mean. They are ubiquitously found they are none other than RODENTS.

Last week,I had been to Madras Central Station to see off my friend. As I was standing on the platform I found that our trains not just carry passengers and freights. There were bandicoots having a free run well inside the busiest Railway station. There were no checks on them they simply enjoying their life in the company of humans. Beneath the platform they just jump from one track to the another.

What was most surprising that they were not alone .Among themselves , there were comrades from other states. They were not accustomed to a particular food because considering the Indian Railway Network they eat all delicacies that come in their way.